End of the Cole line...

[Alpha]

Cheryl Cole has finally dumped Ashley. Why is it that footballers always play away?

BBC News - Cheryl Cole is separating from husband Ashley Cole

[Ck]

Why is it that footballers always play away?

haha Good pun

[Earl]

Didn't anyone tell her if it's worth having it's worth fighting for?

[CambCelt]

Ashley fucked it up bigtime. Haha

[Hutchybee]

Thing is tho, she is a good looking bird but we dont know what she is like to live with.... We are all blaming him but what were his reasons for needing to shag other women?!

[Earl]

That's not really the point though. I agree, if he's been looking elsewhere there's possibly a good reason, but shagging about behind someone's back isn't the way to go about it. He should've dumped her first rather than cheated.

[Ck]

The sneak was either under the illusion he'd not get found out or he just didn't care if he did.

I know some of these footballers can be a bit dim but surely they can work out that there's a very high risk of being exposed, often literally what with mobile phones having camera technology.

[Alpha]

She's a Geordie and she's got priorities. She's not going to hang around trying to fix things like the other self important wags.

I think she did the right thing.

[Victor29]

I admire people who stick together through thick and thin. I'm not condoning what he did but marriage these days seems to be so disposable, nobody tries to mend it. When they are old and grey and have partner number 29 who doesn't really know them because they were'nt there when the kids were young or the hair was naturally brown or the career trials set in etc, etc. they will be just as lonely as if they had no-one.

My last chap, I was with for 12 years but he didn't know me at all. He never knew me as a girl, a swimmer for the county, as a young woman, slim and moderately attractive, as an Au Pair, as a Mum, as a Cub Scout leader, as a mature student struggling with two part time jobs , fostering and raising my own boys and so much more. He just saw a middle aged woman, losing her looks having to work for a living and he used to laugh when I said I'd done things, he didn't believe me!

Stick with the same one and at the end you can look back and say it was all worth it and now we have our soul mate who knows us warts and all and is still there. "Forgive, not because they deserve it but because you deserve to be free from bitterness"(I'm filling up!!!)

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[A_B]

I agree with your post Victor, it would be nice, but she's only 26. She has no kids with him and has only known him for six years in total, so they don't have much history to start with. I don't know much about them, but I did read that he's done it a few times before, so she must've tried to work things out then. You can give second chances, but you can't keep giving them or you'll end up bitter anyway. I believe in fighting for your marriage or relationship, but six years is nothing really for a relationship where you're gonna always be wondering if they're going off with someone else.