End of the Cole line...

Ck · 24-02-2010, 20:32

One time he was rumoured to be playing around she was seen without her wedding/engagement ring on but then the next thing she posted a pic of her ring on Twitter and said 'diamonds are forever'.

It sounds final this time though, he's been properly mugging her about.

**Earl** · 24-02-2010, 20:49

I thought he batted for the other side anyway.

**Hutchybee** · 24-02-2010, 21:32

I agree that he shouldnt have cheated but footballers have a lot of spare time between games. With her being a budding global superstar and very busy and him bored between games, there only so many occasions when you can 'knock one out'.....!

**Victor29** · 25-02-2010, 00:55

Originally Posted by A_B

I agree with your post Victor, it would be nice, but she's only 26. She has no kids with him and has only known him for six years in total, so they don't have much history to start with. I don't know much about them, but I did read that he's done it a few times before, so she must've tried to work things out then. You can give second chances, but you can't keep giving them or you'll end up bitter anyway. I believe in fighting for your marriage or relationship, but six years is nothing really for a relationship where you're gonna always be wondering if they're going off with someone else.

But they never will have history if they chuck it away at the first hurdle, or the second or the third. One day he will really appreciate her when he realises that she has always stood by him no matter what. Look at Posh and Becks, I don't like either of them but they will stick together.
The next bloke she has will be just the same and the next and the next. Blokes are like that. Women expect men to be like them and unfortunately some of todays women are becoming more like men, behaviourwise which is a real shame. Vivre la difference! It's not being foolish it's accepting him for what he is and getting on with life.
Many women not in the public eye, do just that. She should give him a hard time for a while, don't let him get away with it but she shouldn't throw the marriage away.

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Ck · 25-02-2010, 08:32

I couldn't do that, I'd rather be on my own

If you marry someone believing that they are going to be faithful and they're not then they're not the person you married.

He's the worst kind though, he's been sloppy about covering his tracks, if he can't even be bothered to make sure she doesn't find out then he's a complete waste of space.

**CambCelt** · 25-02-2010, 13:20

Originally Posted by Mr Morningstarr*

I thought he batted for the other side anyway.

It's possible, he may be an arse-bandit but we don't know for sure.

Maybe he just married her to look 'straight' or maybe she is a nutter and drove him towards another lass ...

**A_B** · 25-02-2010, 17:29

Originally Posted by Ck

I couldn't do that, I'd rather be on my own

If you marry someone believing that they are going to be faithful and they're not then they're not the person you married.

He's the worst kind though, he's been sloppy about covering his tracks, if he can't even be bothered to make sure she doesn't find out then he's a complete waste of space.

Me too.

I get what you're saying Victor, but why should a woman accept her husband is gonna always cheat and just put up with it? Fair enough if there's kids involved or you'd been together for a long time and it was a one off, but that's not the case with her. Yes they'd have a history if she didn't chuck the towel in after giving him a couple of chances, but what kind of history would that be? I really do think you'd end up bitter thinking all men are like that when they're not. It'd be nice to find your soul mate early on, but not everyone is as lucky. You only get one life and if I had to spend it with a man that did that, I'd rather be on my own. I've experienced it and it's not nice. I left my ex after 10 years when I was just a year younger then her because he was going off with other people. I did try for at least five years, but I wasn't willing to put up with it forever. Yes, we had history but it wasn't a nice history and not something I think I'd have come out of the other end feeling happy about when I looked back in old age. He was a bastard and deserves to be bald, fat, single and living with his mum, whereas I moved on, kept my hair, stayed slim and found my soul mate.